'Wounded Woman"

Here I am again with yet another blog entry on a topic that so aggressively concerns me. ....Woman who have been sexually, mentally and physically abused. Some women of this stature are known for having stand offish or promiscuous behavior. In many cases, these sorts of females feel unworthy and somehow feel they dont deserve "The Best" from a guy. Women sometimes feel that because they had to endure this type of abuse from a man that somehow they "Deserved it" and it must have been something they did wrong to deserve it. Let me set something straight ladies; nothing you could ever do or say that you deserve to be abused in any way, shape or form. No woman deserves to be beaten. never feed into the lies your mind is telling you that you deserved it or you're unworthy. You are a beautiful queen and deserve to be happy and treated with the upmost respect. Another fine example, Women who have been sexually abused or taken advantage of somehow adopt the mentality that dont deserve a good guy or anything good of that matter and develop low self esteem and a low level of confidence sometimes acting out sexually if you catch my drift. But ladies if you don't love and respect yourselves, How can you possibly think a man would? You attract what you give off to them. If you're "Easy", then rest assure a guy will attract that and expect to get in, get off and move on from you. That's not wise to just give your body away to any man you meet. It's your life to live, but I am terribly concerned for my sisters out there with this type of behavior. No one can help you but yourselves. A person can offer all the help in the world to you or talk their necks off trying but unless you want the help theyre just blowing out hot air and wasting precious time that could be well spent on other things. I have recently learned from this type of experience that I cant make someone hear me out and I cant make someone want my help. I can't push myself on anyone. It isnt fair to the other individual. Sisters, stand strong and believe more in yourselves. Know that you are worthy of true love, honor and respect. Know that you are somebody special and If anyone tells you differently then you know these are people that need to be eliminated from your life. You need positive people in your life that will uplift you, not bring you down. Stop excepting abuse from these men who don't even deserve you in the first place. Ladies, dry your eyes, hold your head up, be strong and take control of your lives. There's a whole new world out there for you to explore. It's all up to you. I love you all.

Your sister in Christ,
My love I leave with you,

Tina La Rosa