Chad "Ochocinco" Johnson & Cheryl Burke
We live in a world where there is no love anymore. In relationships we lack communication which is the core of many marriages and relationships thrown away at the first sign of trouble. Some relationships have no hope and are not meant for permanant purposes. But has it ever occurred to you that all some relationships need is a little tender-loving conversation? You'd be surprised at what you can accomplish and learn simply by communicating. Communicating helps to understand what is going on in the other persons mind and helps to build a better understanding and respect for one another. Some relationships deserve second chances. I know, I know that second chances don't always work out unless both parties come to realize and make a "Solid" decision" to make the neccesary changes needed to build a better and trusting union. You can't go into a relationship a second time around expecting things to change if you haven't first changed the old habits that caused a rift in the relationship to began with. Everything in life is about the choices we make. Life is one big decision we place on ourselves. Anything in this lifetime can get accomplished simply by making a "Decision" to change what needs to be changed and accept what we can not change. What I meant by some relationships deserve second chances is that some are faced with challenges in the beginning that hinders the relationship to grow. Sometimes its a fear we carry that bombards our mind when going into a new union. Some fears such as not feeling good enough for that person or low self-esteem or fear of infidelity or maybe even some childhood trauma that damaged your trust in a man/woman. It could be a number of things. But if there is someone out there you were once involved with that you cared so very much for but obligations and personal hang-ups tore you apart, then I think that makes you a candidate for "A second once in a lifetime". what you once had before was something special and rare and you felt something you never quite felt for anyone before. Remember, you could be in love a million times but at some point in your life you will meet someone who will make you feel special in a way no other person has ever made you feel. Maybe that union was only for a season or maybe for a lifetime. But you wouldn't know it if you didn't give it a chance. I'm speaking to some lovers out there and I hope you get what I'm trying to say. Don't let your fears keep the walls around your heart from experiencing "True Love." Don't ever find yourself looking back and wondering. That is torture in itself and you deserve true happiness. Let's try working on saving love instead of taking it for granted and throwing it all away. Love is a powerful thing and even more powerful when we share it and embrace it. Sometimes relationships end so abruptly that it leaves behind the residue of what was and sometimes takes talking face to face to resolve and move forward. Are you that someone caught in a situation like this? A wise little lady once quoted in a book of hers that she would always have a "Soft Spot" in her heart for a lover she was once involved with and that she knows he feels the same way about her. Hmmm, things have changed I know, but sounds to me that there is still a substantial amount of love and respect she still carries for this individual. Maybe, there is "A second once in a lifetime" in the near future for them. What do you think of that Mona Lisa? *Wink*
from the truest depths of my heart,
my love I leave you,
Tina La Rosa
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