Hello Readers & Chad & Cheryl supporters,This is not my first time blogging. I've blogged before. But this particular blog entry is about two very special people, Chad & Cheryl. Their story, their relationship has been less than stellar, but I have a few things I'd like to get off my chest since neither one of them will speak to you personally. Their "Special" friendship started on DWTS season 10. They became comfortable with each other very quickly with Chad's charm and nice smile & Cheryl's witty personality soon flourished into something loving & special. They developed a strong bond that had them inseparable during the course of the season. Chad soon began lavishing Ms. Burke with extravagant gifts with a reported 10,000 diamond cluster ring and for her birthday, countless other gifts including louboutin shoes & purses.Mr. Ochocinco spoiled her and treated her like a princess. But then the end of season 10 was nearing & CC were eliminated during semi-finals. That's quite an acheivement! They were the 1ooth couple to be eliminated from the ABC show. in my opinion, 100=Perfection and CC brought that perfect unity to the show and each other. After being eliminated Chad had other engagements or as he would state it, other 'Obligations' he had to take care of. One of which is his dating show 'The Ultimate Catch' on Vh-1, while Cheryl had quite a few engagements on her own. Since then Chad & Cheryl have 'APPEARED' to have strain in their 'Special Friendship' like the following & Unfollowing several times on twitter or Chad's constant longing for Cheryl. Ms. Burke doesn't seem to be responding to his tweets or msgs to her, but Whose to say they don't talk at all. maybe so, just not on twitter. Your guess is as good as mine! They've both been quite the jett-setters traveling around the world for different projects/engagements sometimes ending up in the exact same city! Crazy! Whatevers going on good or bad, My heart weeps for them b/c it is clear theres is still something between them or was something. Chad has openly admitted he 'Messed things up with Cheryl'. don't know how true most of this is. Chad is not someone you can just figure out in one thought! He's spontaneous and what I like to describe him as 'The Riddler' he puts things out there that make you wonder or think to try to figure him out which often leave fans with a wondering mind. In so many of his fans opinions feel his Dating show 'Obligations' have posed quite a few problems with him & Cheryl. I have to say I agree on some level, not on all levels because i feel there is more to the story than we know and things are not allowed to be said. So I can't say for sure what's really going on. But if indeed Mr. Ochocinco has messed things up with the lovely Cheryl Burke and really is in love with her, then I'd suggest fixing it! Some doubt his sincerity to her with his flirty behavior with any and all kinds of women, when if you claim to have found 'The One' there is absoulutely no need to flirt and carry on like a little teenage boy. it is unneccesary. If you want a stable lifestyle, It first begins with the renewing of your mind and the way you see your life & your future. You can't always think in the 'Now" mode. You have to think what you want your future to be like 10 or 20 yrs from now. Do you want to be a 50 or 60 yr old man alone with no significant other to be there for you and to share everything with you? Do you want to remove things in your life now that will bare no 'good fruits' to you in your future? Your frame of mind should be' " I want a good woman to come home to who loves and accepts everything about me flamboyant and all. A wife who is a good listener, a good cook, a big heart & one that will be with me through all the Bull****. A woman that keeps you grounded and a woman who is funny & loves to laugh and is fun to be around. That's a good woman. Because at the end of the day that's all that really matters! If you want Ms. Burke to be your woman/wife, You must do what is neccessary to win her heart and her trust. Trust is not an easy thing to gain. You have to work hard to gain that trust. You must see her as a gem, a diamond, your perfect dime piece. You must believe you are made for her and her for you. Cheryl is not perfect because no human being is! I'm sure she has her faults/mistakes, hang-ups, attitude and all. infact, I'm sure of it! Cause if she didn't, she wouldnt need to be on this earth. She would be too perfect for this imperfect world. But what i do believe chad is that Cheryl may not be perfect, but she is perfect for you! I hope you realize that, stop screwing up with her and learn to truly love & respect her at all cost. stop the flirting, remove the bad apples out of your life. Prepare your heart, mind, body, soul & spirit to combine it with hers. Always be honest with each other. Love is a serious matter of the heart. It must be handled 'Delicately" Once these things are in align with each other, then truly can you two become"ONE". I love you both little brother and sister. God Bless you both. whatever the outcome is rather together or apart will be God's decision! if you two get married, I want my damn invite!!!
Sincerely, Tina La Rosa A.K.A 'Brownie Girl"
